Stop Building Highways. Start Building Trails.
- Mandie Kramer

- 2 days ago
- 3 min read

When was the last time you remembered a highway drive?
Probably not recently.
But you can probably remember a hike.
The incline.
The moment you almost turned back.
The view at the top.
It was memorable because it was a journey.
Most small businesses operate like highways:
Fast
Efficient
Transactional
But research from Motista found that emotionally connected customers can deliver up to 306% higher lifetime value than customers who are merely satisfied.
Emotional connection doesn’t happen at checkout.
It happens along the trail.
Here’s what that looks like in real businesses.
Product-Based Businesses: Design the Unboxing Trail
(Boutiques, retail shops, skincare brands, CPG, e-commerce)
Example 1: Boutique Clothing Store
Highway approach:
“New arrivals. 20% off. Shop now.”
Trail approach:
Launch a “Confidence Season” collection.
When someone buys a blazer:
The tag includes a message: “Wear this to your next brave conversation.”
A QR code links to a 2-minute founder video about rebuilding confidence after a hard season.
A follow-up email series called: “3 Ways to Style Your Confidence Piece.”
Now the product isn’t just fabric. It’s part of a story.
Example 2: Skincare Brand
Instead of:
“Here’s your cleanser.”
Create:
“The 30-Day Skin Reset.”
Inside the box:
A printed roadmap: Week 1 (Detox), Week 2 (Balance), Week 3 (Glow), Week 4 (Maintain)
Automated emails checking in at each milestone
Customer photo submissions at Day 30
You’re guiding a visible transformation, not just selling a product.
Example 3: Local Gift Shop
After purchase:
Include a small “Hidden Gem” card offering a surprise discount if they return within 14 days.
Invite them to a monthly “Trailblazer Club” email featuring one local maker story.
Celebrate customer milestones (“1 year shopping with us!”)
You’re turning occasional buyers into community members.
Service-Based Businesses: Make the Process Visible
(Salons, photographers, marketing agencies, contractors, wellness clinics)
Example 1: Hair Salon
Highway:
Book. Cut. Pay. Leave.
Trail:
Create “The Hair Revival Journey.”
Step 1: The Basecamp Consultation
Step 2: The Repair Phase
Step 3: The Style Summit
After appointment # 1:
Send a “What to Expect at Your Next Visit” email.
Share a personalized video recap of the stylist’s plan.
Celebrate progress with side-by-side comparison photos.
Now clients feel guided — not processed.
Example 2: Marketing Agency
Instead of:
“We run ads for you.”
Create:
“The 90-Day Growth Climb.”
Phase 1: Clarity & Positioning
Phase 2: Messaging Build
Phase 3: Scale & Optimize
Each month:
Send a milestone recap.
Share one unexpected insight discovered.
Celebrate metrics as “elevation gained.”
Clients stay because they see the ascent.
Example 3: Home Renovation Contractor
After signing:
Deliver a printed “Build Timeline Map.”
Send weekly progress updates with photos.
Highlight “milestone days” (Framing Day, First Paint Day).
When the reveal happens, it feels earned.
Coaches & Consultants: Guide the Internal Climb
(Coaches, strategists, consultants, therapists, advisors)
You are not selling information.
You are guiding identity shifts.
Example 1: Business Coach
Instead of:
“Scale to six figures.”
Create:
“The Founder Evolution Framework.”
Stage 1: Survival Mode
Stage 2: Clarity Reset
Stage 3: Confident Operator
Stage 4: Strategic Leader
At each stage:
Share common doubts.
Normalize emotional resistance.
Spotlight client case studies at that specific stage.
People feel seen — and stay longer.
Example 2: Health Coach
Instead of:
“Lose 20 pounds.”
Design:
“The Energy Restoration Trail.”
Week 1: Awareness
Week 3: Stability
Week 6: Strength
Week 12: Identity Shift
Send:
Weekly reflection prompts.
Personal check-ins.
A celebration at every 30-day mark.
Weight loss becomes secondary to identity change.
Example 3: Consultant (Operations or Strategy)
Instead of:
“Optimize your systems.”
Offer:
“The Operational Clarity Sprint.”
Before starting:
Send a diagnostic self-assessment.
Map their “Current Terrain” visually.
Share what “Summit State” looks like.
After delivery:
30-day implementation check-in.
A “Trail Guide” PDF for future hires.
You become the trusted guide — not a one-time fixer.
The Real Differentiator
Highways prioritize speed.
Trails prioritize experience.
Trail businesses:
Add small surprises.
Make progress visible.
Name the milestones.
Invite customers into a shared narrative.
And when customers feel emotionally connected, the relationship compounds.
If you’re reading this as a:
Product-based founder → Audit your post-purchase experience.
Service provider → Map your milestones and name them.
Coach or consultant → Turn your framework into a story arc.
Because when you stop treating customers like traffic and start treating them like adventurers, they don’t just buy.
They stay.
Want continued support and feedback? Be sure to join the Academy, and you can join in on office hours and writing sessions that happen every week, helping you with ideation along the way because this adventure is not easy to do alone.
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